So, being old enough to be an AARP member, I’ve been in the
work world for quite a while. I started
working part time back in high school. I
actually worked at a mini-factory of sorts, making quiches. Not a bad gig, actually. It did have its down sides, as every job
does. Like when you were assigned the
job of processing the huge block of cheese into grated cheese, and you’d break
out in hives from the fumes. But it had
its up sides too. Like getting to take
home the ones that came out of the oven with cracked crusts!
But one thing I’ve noticed over the years … what used to be
thought of as the “9 to 5” world has now become a “24/7” thing. And it is NOT a good change!
Back when I first became a paralegal, I worked at a law
firm. Law firms are notorious for having their
employees work a TON of hours. It’s all
about the billable. I would regularly
work late. And I’m not talking 7 or 8 at
night, I’m talking 10 or 11 at night. At
times I’d be there would be even later.
And on a rare occasion, I’d never get home. I had a change of clothes in my office and a
sleeping bag stored under my desk for times when I would have to pull an
all-nighter, catching a half an hour or so of sleep before starting the next
full day.
When I was ready to leave the law firm for an in-house
position, I sat down with one of the partners I worked with on a consistent
basis. He didn’t want me to leave and
offered to have the law firm pay for me to go to law school. I was honored that he thought enough of me to
make that offer. But I turned him down.
I didn’t want this kind of life. I want
quality of life. I wanted to earn enough
to pay my bills and save for vacations and retirement. I didn’t need to live in the style of what is
commonly thought of as being “rich”, because to me being rich is having a
family who loves me, good friends who are like family, and the time to enjoy the
things life has to offer.
After the law firm, I worked at jobs that were more
reasonable in their hour requirements.
But now, in the past 10-15 years or so, it’s gotten to the point that even
the “in-house” hours are getting longer. I know there are certain industries
where this is always going to be the case.
But now more companies want to have more done, by less people. They want everyone on a blackberry or
smartphone, connected all the time to the office.
Taking the weekend, or a vacation, completely away from work
related interruptions is practically unheard of! Weekends and vacations were traditionally meant
to let a person recharge their batteries, so they can come back to the office
better prepared to tackle the work on their plate. How is not getting this “off” time having an
effect on us? There is no rest, there is
no recharging. So are we really as productive
in the hours we are working? Now they
have desks that you can raise up so you can stand for part of your day, to
reduce the risk of stroke.
Seriously? We have become so
glued to our desks that we are risking our very health!
The United States ranks VERY low on the scale of countries
that are best for a work-life balance.
It’s not even in the top 10 of the best countries for a good work-life
balance. Heck, it’s not even in the top 25! And it’s worse in the metropolitan
areas of the country. These are the areas
where leisurely walking down the street will annoy others around you (um, New
York, I’m talking about you!) Everyone is rushing around to get more done in
less time. Because we spend so much of
our time at work. Why do we feel that we
need to live to work, rather than work to live?
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